Q | What skills and previous experience help you in your volunteer role?
Over the course of my long life I have volunteered in a number of roles which have included school, parish and archdiocesan projects, some with significant financial responsibilities. Upon reflection, I view these opportunities as my faith-in-action and through which I have also gained much personal satisfaction. However, nothing compares with what I experience weekly at Calvary Oaklands.
In my ninth decade I’ve lived, and am grateful to be continuing to live, a full life. I’ve been blessed in many ways through work, business and opportunities and especially through my ever-growing family. I’ve had chances to live and work in other countries and have been captivated by religious and cultural experiences and traditions, particularly by demonstrative acts which convey dignity and respect. I bring the richness, wisdom and inspiration of these experiences to my current volunteering.
Q | How long have you been a Calvary volunteer?
I don’t recall exactly how I became involved in this volunteering role. My previous experience with aged care had been visiting a dear, close friend and also an aunt who had both been residents of what is now Calvary Flora McDonald. I was aware that others in my parish had been visiting Oaklands as a Eucharistic Minister before it was acquired by Calvary, one of them for about 30 years. It was something I thought I could do. Another parishioner, Margie, co-ordinates the little team from the parish. I’ve been undertaking this role, this ministry, since the acquisition, around late 2021. Having completed my ‘apprenticeship’ (induction) with Margie, I’m now doing the round on my own.
I have a weekly commitment, usually Fridays, with flexibility to change days due to other commitments. I visit five residents, although this is subject to change; I have one new resident commencing this week. I bring Holy Communion for those who are able and wish to receive the Blessed Sacrament. We pray together, we read the Gospel of the forthcoming Sunday and spend time at length reflecting on the text, analysing it and trying to contextualise for today’s circumstances. It’s as natural as talking about cricket and football. I also join the community for Mass every month or so when scheduled.
Q | What do you enjoy most about volunteering at Calvary Oaklands?
Oaklands is a humble, functional facility. Its beauty is in the people; residents, staff and other volunteers. The Lifestyle Co-ordinator and assistants are warm with their welcome. I have a lot of fun with the nursing and hospitality staff; there is banter, teasing, engagement with others as I move through the building. I witness so many expressions of joy; they are spreading the joy of the Gospel in differing ways. There are so many signs of love and intimacy hidden in plain sight, every day of the week; gestures which exemplify the Spirit of Calvary – Being for Others. Intimacy is displayed in the way that staff provide care with a smile, with a laugh. Milestones and other life moments are celebrated; there is a real sense that everybody matters.
Above all, I am continually inspired by the residents. So many different characters from all walks of life with interesting stories. We have stimulating and challenging conversations. I am in awe of the tenacity of spirit. Some with physical limitations desire to find another way to overcome obstacles like a member of the residents’ advisory committee who painstakingly types each day on a computer, using one finger, supported by the other hand. Energetic, so vital, so happy; there is a sense that everything is alive at Oaklands.
Q | What advice would you give to others who may be considering becoming a volunteer?
As we age and move through the developmental stages of life we begin to reflect more deeply on the meaning and purpose of life. I’m at that stage and I am finding that my volunteering with Calvary Oaklands is inviting me to ponder the spiritual side of my life. I’m receiving more than I am giving through volunteering. I’d encourage others, particularly those who might be transitioning to retirement to consider volunteering with Calvary. Perhaps a similar role as I have shared, perhaps with Lifestyle, joining in the sing-alongs, maybe some gardening; why not share in the vitality of life in an aged care setting?